Ever notice how wives and wisdom have a lot in common? Proverbs 18:21 says, "A man who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord." Earlier in chapter 13 verse 13 it states, "Blessed is the man who finds wisdom, the man who gains understanding. It goes on to say that "she" (referring to wisdom) is more profitable than silver and yields better returns than gold. I thought that was kind of funny since we are in a recession and gold is increasing in value. A good wife obviously increases in value during difficult times.
In verse 1 of Proverbs 31 the bible reads, "A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies." For thousands of years rubies have been considered one of the most valuable gemstones on earth. To me that implies that a good wife never goes out of style. Something quite similar is said of wisdom in Proverbs 3:15, "She is more precious than rubies, nothing you desire can compare with her."
Proverbs 31:11,12 Tells us, "Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life." There is much to be gained from finding both wisdom and a good wife. In Proverbs 3:18 when it states that wisdom is a TREE OF LIFE to those who embrace her, those who lay hold of her will be blessed." We know what it means to be blessed but you may find yourself wondering, "What exactly is a TREE OF LIFE?"
A Tree of Life is a gift that keeps on giving. It's a desire fulfilled that only gets better with time. It's a blessing from the Lord that makes you rich and adds no sorrow. It's a fruit bearing tree that brings forth fruit in every season. The similarities between wives and wisdom is uncanny. A lot of men are missing out on their blessings, and not obtaining favor because they are afraid of marriage.
How exactly are you to find a wife with such virtuous qualities? Find wisdom first and she'll help you find a wife. In case you need help finding wisdom, Proverbs 1:7 tells us that "The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge: but fools despise wisdom and instruction." Still wondering how to recognize your wife? In the same manner in which you began to find wisdom. The fear of the Lord. "Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." Proverbs 31:30
If you are reading this and you have a virtuous wife, "Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate." Proverbs 31:31
Sincerely,
Toya Poplar
